emperor-ing:

the idea of a clutch purse is nightmarish to me. the whole point of bags was so we could escape the torment of holding things. and now u gotta hold a bag.

tsvilingloshn:

mjalti:

radicarian:

it is past time we jettisoned the useless false dichotomy of introversion vs. extroversion and just accepted that everybody has a minimum amount of social interaction, failing which, they get really weird. and everybody has a maximum amount of social interaction, exceeding which, they get really weird. these levels are different for everyone, for a variety of reasons, and have no moral dimension. and that is all.

why would you come to this club and just shoot Myers & Briggs like this

myers and briggs deserve it

anxietyproblem:

renniequeer:

Hot take but rigid divisions between queer identities and heavily-policed labels that are treated like diagnoses are really, really bad.

Trans men have shared histories with lesbians who have shared histories with bisexual women who have shared histories with ace people who have shared histories with aro people have shared histories with gay men who have shared histories with trans women who have shared histories with nonbinary people who have shared histories with etc etc etc etc etc.

Labels are important for people who want them, but we need to stop treating sexuality and gender as rigid boxes and checklists.

saxifraga-x-urbium:

blujayonthewing:

kat-of-letters:

i know that “don’t harass people for being weird, they might be autistic!” is a fairly popular take on here. but as a Certified Autist, i’d like to add that harassing allistic and/or neurotypical people for being weird is also bad, and should not be done

and before you come in with “yeah, you never know who is and isn’t autistic, and you shouldn’t force people to out themselves!” i want to say two things: one, i agree. and two, even if you could magically avoid ever harassing a single autistic person, it still wouldn’t be okay to go after NTs for being weird. they’re people, janice. they’re allowed to be really invested in naruto

#stop playing the game of ‘who is it okay for me to hurt?’ #the answer is no one #the answer is ALWAYS going to be no one #none people is the correct number of people to hurt [X]

i have been thinking about this recently but i don’t think i’d have put it so succinctly or so well

compassionatereminders:

I wish abled people would swallow the harsh truth that sometimes bad things happen to good people instead of directly or indirectly blaming mentally ill and disabled people for their struggles in order to hang on to the belief that something like that couldn’t happen to innocent, good people who didn’t do anything wrong. I know it’s hard to confront that really bad things could happen to anyone - but it’s important to acknowledge or you’ll find yourself blaming others for things outside their control in order to maintain your own feeling of false security.

heartlessharless:

violsva:

Futhermore: “tumblr” as you experience it is defined entirely by whom you’re following. If you think tumblr doesn’t focus enough on recovery or female artists or Jason Momoa, follow some recovery/female artists/Jason Momoa blogs, and tumblr will change.

THIS. People are always going on about “tumblr is so toxic” like there’s a singular tumblr experience and we’re all helpless to escape it. UNFOLLOW PEOPLE. If someone’s putting bullshit on your dash, just unfollow them. Follow new people. It really is that simple. Tumblr is what you make it.

devereauxsdisease:

wrathofthestag:

Originally posted by yourreactiongifs

One more time for the cheap seats:
JOKES ABOUT RAPE AREN’T FUNNY.

NOPE. They aren’t funny. 

Ever.

Nope, not even then.

Nope, not then either. 

tsunamiwavesurfing:

disney can suck my dick if they think im about to subscribe to another streaming service. imma stick with netflix and amazon if your shit ain’t there its gettin pirated