Icon from a picrew by grgikau. Call me Tir or Julian. 37. He/They. Queer. Twitter: @tirlaeyn. ao3: tirlaeyn. 18+ Only. Star Trek. Sandman. IwtV. OMFD. Definitionless in this Strict Atmosphere.
common misconception! actually the only way to tell if someone is a top or a bottom is to know their preferences regarding penetrative sex ❤️
wait you guys actually think you can know someone’s sexual preference from their mannerisms or an internet persona? like. that wasnt a joke?
oh you think bottoming is feminine and weak and generally a “lesser” form of enjoying intercourse…. no no yeah thats totally a #queer progressive opinion and definitely not a take from like 500 B.C.
it is also worth noting that this will be used to cover up the inaction on the cost of living crisis. expect a bunch of “uk coming together to mourn the queen” bullshit soon when families are choosing between heating their homes and feeding their kids
not to mention how the funeral costs will show just where the country’s priorities are but any political figures pointing that out will be demonised for being anti-monarchy
destroy the belief that men shouldn’t talk about gender or how affects their life or feelings or perceptions or how others treat them. burn the idea that nobody’s negative experiences with gender is real but women’s. men dismantling and destroying and rejecting gender roles is incredibly important and good and sexy
now that I’m living in a residential facility with dorms that are literally (I can’t make this up) “male” and “she/her they/them” dorms this post is so relevant lol I couldn’t make this up If tried… cis people think the two genders are “oppressed” and “oppressor” without thinking critically about the context and it’s fucking alienating being a trans man and getting rejected from both spaces when you are literally there to get social support
I actually am really sick of the focus on trans people who don’t want to transition always being on trans men and tme nonbinary people because like you see all these people get accepted for not wanting to be masculine and not wanting to have deep voices and body hair but never any acceptance for trans women who don’t want to be feminine and have big chests and tuck and wear makeup and shave our faces and that seems kind of suspicious don’t you think. Almost like perceived masculinity is frowned upon in tme-dominated trans spaces. Almost like trans women can’t even exist and do nothing without people associating us with men and maleness
I can’t tell you where or how to activate to help solve this. There are politicians, groups, and activists pushing for this in so many ways. I can tell you when, though.
