A quick kiss sketch! This is so messy but Iām sick and exhausted so we make do
Ok but episode 5 is such a turning point and I feel the need to ramble about this a little.
When I first saw the almost kiss at the end of the episode, I was kind of surprised. I knew from tumblr that the relationship between Ed and Stede was going to develop into a romance, I just didn’t expect it to happen so quickly and so explicitly (the damage queerbaiting does to a mf). That scene signed a tone shift that I wasn’t expecting, and the more I think about it the more absurd it feels that I didn’t see it coming.
While Edward and Stede have lots in common and get along from the moment they meet, they are not on equal footing at first.
Stede treads Blackbeard as a friend, but he is also in a kind of hero-worship situation. He’s known about him for a long time, he just had his life and crew saved by him, he is learning crucial skills from him.
And Ed, well, Ed also liked Stede from the moment he heard about him but, as lovable as he thinks that Stede is, Ed is still going along with his own plans. He decides to contact Stede because he’s bored. He’s learning about upper class because he wants to be one of them. As much as he likes Stede, he does not need Stede, while Stede pretty much needs him to survive.
What changes this dynamic? Well, the way Stede reacts to Ed’s vulnerability.
In episode 4 we see Blackbeard in complete control of the situation while Stede panicks, until we learn that Blackbeard was wrong about the day. At that point Ed just… gives up, and retreats to drink himself into a stupor, and is joined by Stede. While they don’t exactly bond in this moment, they are for once on equal footing, both musing on their own failings, and come up with the same plan at the same time. They work together, and while Ed still does not need Stede in his life at this point, he has learned that, at the very least, Stede is not the kind of person that would stab him (physically or emotionally) the moment he shows weakness.
Then episode 5 comes along and, despite Blackbeard’s attempts, Stede starts to see more through the facade. Stede sees how the “rich donkey” comment got to him, and offers a support that Ed is not yet ready to accept. But later, when the party gets ugly, Stede “soft boy” Bonnet tells motherfucking Blackbeard to stand down, with so much authority that Ed actually does listen to him. Stede not only sees how much those comments got into Ed’s head, not only stops him from doing something extremely rush and stupid in response, but actively takes the matter in his hands, punishing a boat full of people for the crime of hurting someone he cares about.
Ed has grown up in a world where every man has to fend for himself, where pirates don’t have friends, where weakness means your crew will mutiny, and suddenly he is faced with someone who not only doesn’t shame him for his moment of weakness, but tells him don’t worry, I can deal with this so you don’t have to. The look that Ed gives Stede as the boat burns is, I believe, both because he didn’t think Stede had it in him, and because he definitely didn’t expect Stede to do this for him.
Cut to the moonlight scene. Ed is still processing everything that just happened, when Stede approaches him and offers, once again, support for what he just went through. He gently takes (after asking!) something that Ed cares about, a symbol of his softness, and treats it with such care and respect, showing Ed how to display that to the world. Ed knows, in this moment, that he can trust Stede, that it’s safe to be vulnerable with him, something that he probably hasn’t felt with anyone in years. Of course he takes that step forward, of course he is tempted to kiss him.
And this fully progresses in epsiode 6. The episode opens with a montage of the two of them enjoying each other’s company, finally on equal footing, because Ed has realized that he does need Stede, not for his plan, but as a person he wants to spend time with, someone cares about (much to Izzy’s chagrin). Not only that, but the hilarious/flirty “stab me” scene is all about physical trust. Ed trusts Stede enough that he’s willing to be physically vulnerable when he’s around. But this isn’t the highest level of trust for Ed. Ed would probably rather be stabbed than talk about his feelings, but by the end of the episode he’s ready to show Stede what, by pirate standards, is the worst part of him. He’s crying, he’s scared, he’s showing all of his emotional vulnerability, and once again Stede only shows him care. Stede reassures him that he’s not a monster, that they’re friends, and that their friendship won’t change because Ed planned to kil him or because he was too soft to go through with the plan (there’s a wonderful post about this, I can’t find it right now).
It’s not a coincidence that from episode 7 onward these two are clearly and openly head over heels for each other (still screaming about Ed trusting Stede to take something out of his beard), so much so that other characters start to fully acnowledge theirs as a relationship. The progression of their romance - from the instant chemistry to the weird tension to the full flirting - is dictated by how vulnerable Ed is willing to be with Stede, and how gently Stede treats him in response. And it breaks my heart because when Ed finally brought down his final defenses, when he was ready to leave it all behind for Stede, he had his heart broken in the worst possible way.
Ok, so the moment when the crew unanimously elects Oluwande as Captain?
“It’s you.” “No other choice.” “The best Captains are the ones who hate being captains…”
INCREDIBLE. SHOWSTOPPING.
And I’m thinking about how that moment ties together some of the biggest overarching themes of the season, ie: masculinity, power, leadership, violence…
Like… I’m thinking about the “Thesis, Antithesis, Synthesis” story structure:THESIS
The story’s beginning thesis is shown with STEDE’S leadership style.
IE: “We talk about our feelings and do arts and crafts, etc…”
Stede’s stated goals establish the big themes of the story; gender roles, self-expression, masculinity, violence, etc… he’s expressing a desire to subvert toxic masculinity and abuse…
I finally watched the goofy little pirate show and had my heart ripped out
I love the way Ed rests his head against Stede’s hand
Everyone’s like, “Oh, I ship Izzy with Lucius,” or, “I ship him with Frenchie,” “I ship him with Ed and Stede.” The only ship that man needs is shipped off to therapy wtf.
Do you think that Stede ever puts it together that he told Blackbeard to go suck eggs in hell?
Should be obvious but idk if it actually occurred to him
Iām so hooked on this right now
Well, you know
OUR FLAG MEANS DEATH + edit meme
[¼] characters: DAVID FANE as fang






