lbpqs:

hey just a reminder that both ‘bi’ and ‘lesbian’ don’t necessarily have to mean anything about your relationship to sex. lesbians who aren’t interested in having sex/aren’t sexually attracted to anyone can call themselves ace lesbians if they want to, or homoromantic asexuals, but lesbian covers that too. especially with ‘homoromantic’ - you don’t have to call yourself that. being a lesbian doesn’t require sexual attraction. bi people who aren’t interested in sex/aren’t sexually attracted to anyone don’t have to call themselves biromantic asexual, they can just be bi or even call themselves bisexual. asexual isn’t a label everyone is comfortable with and that doesn’t mean that anyone not identifying as ace must have an interest in sex.