kcd071913:

vandisa:

bando–grand-scamyon:

fatgirlopinions:

mariesbookblog:

theamazonparagon:

bioluminescentqueen:

theamazonparagon:

Please do not stick your dick in someone’s ass and then put it in their pussy without wiping it off. That will cause a bacterial infection to the likes of which you’ve never seen. Love yourself as I have loved you.

YEA

People still reblogging this but for real do not do this shit. That bacterial infection can turn to a blood infection and your ass will die. All for some dick. You wanna die over some mediocre bootyass sex? Love yourself.

Change condoms when changing holes mkay loves?

Important

I see porn has taught some people terrible hygiene habits

Also, if you’re having a mff threesome, make sure the male wipes himself off or changes the condom between partners. It ain’t glamorous but trust me.

Hehe, seriously though 😩😩

dollpng:

like. here’s a shoutout to the abuse victims who weren’t “nice”. who haven’t been submissive and soft and kind to their abusers, who were angry and hurt them - purposefully or not -, who screamed at them, who didn’t treat the person that hurt them so much well. who became toxic for their abusers because they couldn’t or wouldn’t handle it “nicely”. who tried to speak up, who caused arguments, who “provoked” further abuse by being rude and mean and harsh. who were angry and hurt and wanted to pay their abusers back for what they did to them. who realised something was off and refused to just accept it, who seemed like “bad people” without context because the abuse has made them angry and unwilling to be nice anymore. who aren’t “nice” anymore, who are still angry and don’t want to try because they tried and were hurt anyway. you are all valid, and no matter how you reacted you didn’t deserve the abuse. you are not the same as your abuser just because of how you dealt with the situation. it is not and has never been your fault. they hurt you, and they never had the right to.

slightlycrookedletters:

annekewrites:

manicpixieninjaturtle:

doingoxyinchurch:

Don’t make fun of right-wing children. Don’t bully right-wing children. Don’t scream at, lecture, or swear at right-wing children. I say this because I was that child. I was the child forced by my parents to stand outside of clinics holding signs that say “Abortion Kills Children.” I was the child who went to church every Sunday and could parrot every bull shit argument opposing gay marriage. I sounded smart. I sounded like I formed those opinions on my own. The reality was I was being psychologically abused. I was brainwashed and indoctrinated. I had no sense of self until I was much older. I had been wiped clean and filled with garbage. I have PTSD in part because of my childhood. Today, I am telling you, that those children NEED you! They need you to show love and patience and compassion. They need you to guide them out. Those children holding those signs are children begging to be seen. See them.

To add - this is a tactic right-wingers use to push their kids further right! The kids see well-meaning lefties being assholes and think “wow, I guess my parents were right, lefties ARE bad people who don’t think of the well being of the children and attack the underdog” etc., for real, these are kids and have in all likelihood experienced some degree or other of cult conditioning/abuse.

My husband was raised in this way.  All of this is accurate.

This. This was my childhood.

Except for the few people who asked things like why I believed the thing or pointed me towards better information, people tended to be angry and, due to being isolated and indoctrinated, I couldn’t understand why. 

It’s like you’ve been wearing red-tinted glasses for your whole life, and you just think everything is red or reddish. And people keep getting mad at you for saying things are red, when (to you) they are clearly red, your parents assure you they’re red, and that anyone saying differently is trying to trick you.

This isn’t the case for every child that grows up in a right-wing household, but it often was for me. 

dis-corpse:

little kids can be and are gay! little girls and boys have crushes on their best friends! there is nothing sexual or dirty about it! let kids be gay

platonic-suggestion:

r-grimes:

atlantafive:

consent through fear is not consent

let’s repeat that again:

consent through fear is not consent

And while we’re at it:

consent through guilt is not consent either

inkskinned:

when someone loves you - really loves you - treat them gently. text your best friend back when you can. tell your mother you noticed her haircut and that she was right about that recipe. tell your grandfather that the boats in his bottles are the best things you’ve ever seen. be good to the people who are good to you. it’s the least you can do.

futureblackpolitician:

unpopular-ship-queen:

royallysouthernsportsloving:

spartanlady16:

Leave. Them. Alone. 

Tiffany. Barron. Arabella. Theodore. Joseph. Chloe. Kai. Donald III. Spencer. Tristan. 

They did not ask to be born to the family they have. The have no control over what their father/grandfather says and does. They did not ask him to run for President. 

However, they are all tasked with the enormous burden of being the immediate family of Donald Trump, which is not going to be easy. 

For 8 years, we stood back and let Malia and Sasha Obama grow up in peace. While there were some mishaps with members of the press and photos leaking from so called “friends”, they had a pretty quiet childhood outside of the public eye just like President and First Lady Michelle Obama wished. 

I know Donald Trump is a terrible person, and we aren’t too fond of Melania, but I’m asking all of you to be the bigger person and leave the children out of the issues we have Trump. Let them have a normal childhood. 

That means: 

~ Don’t threaten them (which is a federal crime anyway).
~ Don’t make fun of their looks.
~ If you see them in public, ignore them and go about your day. 
~ Don’t retweet crude comments
~ Don’t tweet Tiffany (the only one of the younger family members on SM) stupid shit about her dad. 

And if you still need a reason, remember, the less ammunition we give Trump to take away our basic rights the better. We saw how reacted to Pence getting booed at Hamilton. Do you really wanna see how he reacts if people bully his kids? 

These next four years aren’t going to be easy, we’re going to protest, argue and resist the best we can, but we can still have some class and common decency in the process. 

Remember what Michelle Obama said, “When they go low, we go high.” 

PS: Also extend this courtesy to the children of Mike Pence and his cabinet picks.

THIS!!!!! They are children and should be left alone! Do NOT attack them when they have no say. They are innocent. You can’t pick your family!

^^^
i hate trump and pence as much as the next person, but it’s not their kids’ fault who they live with or what their parents do. please leave them alone.

Reblogging this again because it’s very important. Leave the kids and grandkids alone please.

autistictsoni:

defectivegembrain:

I’m just so tired of autistic children’s right to privacy being completely disregarded. I know this has been said many times before, but when are people going to start taking notice? To show kids on film having meltdowns, self-injuring, having adults reveal their personal information and talk about how hard they are to deal with as if they aren’t even there…how the fuck can anyone defend that?!

(I was going to make this a fancy proper post of its own, but I’m tired and not wording things properly. Hope you don’t mind if I tack on a list here instead.)

Things you should not share online if you respect your autistic child’s privacy:

• Their full name. Use a pseudonym, or their middle initial, or something else relatively anonymous. Do not link your child’s full name to their diagnosis.
• Posting a parent’s full name + posting the autistic child’s first name = posting the autistic child’s full name.
• Do not link your child’s picture to their diagnosis either.

• Pictures or videos of them having a hard time. (Why are you videotaping this at all? Unless you need the video to show to a therapist or someone else who can use that information to help, put down the camera or phone and help your kid.)
• “Oh, but I want other parents to be able to see what an autistic meltdown looks like!” No. There are already videos of that online posted by autistic people who have consented to it. You don’t need to add one of a person who hasn’t consented, or is too young to understand what they’re agreeing to.

• Details on your child’s meltdowns, self-injurious behavior, or negative coping skills that are linked to their full name and/or picture. I’m pretty understanding of this stuff being posted anonymously, though, because a lot of times parents are looking to get information on how to help their child.

• Anything about their puberty, toileting, menstruation, masturbation, or other personal details. If you need help, resources, or to vent, there is a way to do it privately.

• Information on any kind of abuse or serious mistreatment your child may have gone through. Period. Do not share an abuse survivor’s story without their explicit and informed consent.

• Things you would not want shared about you, or things you would not share about a neurotypical child.

It does not matter how old your child is, whether they use the internet, or whether they know you have posted these things.

Their disability does not mean they are less deserving of privacy than other people are.