I can maintain the illusion of gender binary for 16 hours but after that fuck off, I’ll be in my bucket
you will live to see man made genders beyond your comprehension
people who say they are trans are trans. period. even if they “still look cis,” even if the only difference you, personally, notice is that they use different pronouns, even if they are totally closeted. people who call themselves trans are not cis. you do not get to un-trans someone because they do not present the way you want them to, or because they are closeted, or because they don’t pass, or for any other reason. if you see a trans person and your first thought is “gtfo trans spaces, you are not Trans Enough,” that is a you problem and you should square that away before you make any attempt to interact with other trans people.
some of us live in the real world, where it isn’t so easy or safe to be fully out or present the way we’d actually like. some of us don’t have access to the resources that would allow us to pass. some of us will never pass and don’t care about it anymore. and even if none of these things were the case, for fuck’s sake, presentation is not gender. nonbinary people who present in ways congruent with their assigned gender are not somehow less trans.
Trans girls give me life… Just seeing them discovering and ENJOYING femininity in such an unbridled way…
anyway much love to lesbians who bind or want/had top surgery, lesbians who pack, lesbians who want to go on/are on T, trans lesbians who don’t want any surgeries or to go on E, lesbians who grow out their facial hair, much love to all gnc lesbians in general
sending SO much love to all trans men/transmasc folks with long hair. whether it’s for cultural reasons, you’re closeted, you just like long hair, etc. i love you! double love for any men/transmascs of color!! :-)
I need y’all to remember that not all trans people fit into the box of transfem or transmasc. Afab trans people are not inherently transmasc and amab trans people are not inherently transfem. Some of us consider ourselves to be trans androgynous or trans neutral. Some of us don’t want to be put in any boxes at all. Y’all have inadvertently created a new binary system and that does not help trans people at all.
Me: I’m non-binary. I’m not a man.
A trans man positive post: *exists*
Me: 😭😭 this is so beautiful thank you
idk if anyone needs to hear this today, but: if you are a trans dude, the fact that you are a man is a good thing and your existence as a trans man makes the world a better place. it is not a bad thing that you are a man and it’s especially not bad that you are a trans man. the fact that you exist as a man is a great thing and you are amazing. sleep well tonight
oh noooooo this is so mean and hilarious
See ya just need to be Southern enough to say “oh thank you sweetie/hun” and you’re fine. Then again, that usually requires genuine automatic kindness. Oh well.
Genuine Automatic Kindness is the name of my next album.