Icon by @ThatSpookyAgent. Call me Tir or Julian. 37. He/They. Queer. Twitter: @tirlaeyn. ao3: tirlaeyn. 18+ Only. Star Trek. The X-Files. Sandman. IwtV. OMFD. Definitionless in this Strict Atmosphere.
Hello. Im a disabled queer trans man. My name is Will.
My partner Alexandre has stage 4 melanoma. On Friday of last week, he declined rapidly and on Sunday, they decided to try a very risky immunotherapy treatment to help kickstart his immune system. After not hearing anything for several days, a friend of his finally messaged me letting me know he’s in a coma, but he’s stable. He has about a year to live, on the outside, and that’s only if his immune system properly restarted. So helping me see him will mean more than I can possibly express.
He had planned on flying out to me directly as soon as he improved, but that may not be possible now. I need to get to him as soon as possible. He is currently in Lyon, France. Tickets to London are about 400-500 bucks and a train to Lyon is probably about 100-200. I am obviously going to need double that to get home, and then money for food.
The goal is 2000. I’m not using GoFundMe because they take a cut out of every donation, so I am linking my PayPal directly.
I am also going to be getting my car ready to be a Lyft driver, donating plasma, and pursuing other avenues of quick money gaining.
I would like to raise this amount by May, but that may not be possible, so I’m aiming for June as a last ditch effort. Please help, everyone! Even 5$ is so helpful. I need every penny. And I won’t be touching this money until it reaches the goal amount. If need be I will provide a screenshot of the PayPal balance as donations come in. And please make sure to choose the friends and family option because if you do the business route it takes almost a week to clear.
paypal.me/luxetenebris
My deadname is attached to this PayPal, so please don’t comment on it or spread the name around.
Please make sure to check “friends and family” instead of “goods and services”! Services takes over a week to clear!
Please help keep me on the same continent as my child. I need $295 (or £233) ASAP to insure me and my child will not be separated by thousands of miles. This is extremely time sensitive. Please consider donating so that borders do not keep us apart: Paypal | Patreon | YouCaring
If you’re unable to contribute financially then reblogs are what keep donation posts like this alive.
My two year old is an American citizen living precariously in the UK with a shaky visa situation that could fall through at any time. If my partner and child had to leave the UK, which is a likely possibility, I would be unable to join them. In order to fix this nightmare of bureaucracy I need to apply for a B2-Visa and to do that I need to renew my passport and I need to do it as soon as possible. I need $160 for the US Visa application and £105.50 for the British passport renewal.
I am a disabled Jewish trans woman with a 4 year gap in my resume and no degree. Between my inability to stand for long periods of time and short-term memory problems that make my life feel like a cheap Memento remake, I cannot work.
Without help, we simply don’t have the financial means to make this Visa application a reality. I love my child more than I can say, and cannot bear being parted from them.
To donate to this specific cause either give to my Paypal, my family’s YouCaring or contact me for UK bank details to make a direct transfer. If you’d just like to help my family survive in general, then my partner is an amazing author who has a Patreon, the money from this is our only reliable income and so if you can help that way then it is vastly preferable for us. And as always, reblogs are incredibly important and appreciated.
Hello all! My name is Roanoke Hellinger and I'm a nonbinary transgender person living in North Carolina. I'm in the middle of legally changing my name and recently got my consultation for top surgery done. Not only is the plastic surgeon located in Charlotte, NC, but she's also developed her own...
guess who has a fundraiser for top surgery now??? 💕✨ even $1 makes a difference, but if you can’t donate- no worries!- please consider signal boosting.
Hello, everyone! We're the Solomons, and we've made the decision to start a campaign on YouCaring to raise money to support our survival. We're so grateful that you're here! The first week of February 2017, my partner, our two-year-old child, and I were forced to flee our housing situation at a...
Please, please, please keep reblogging if you can. Our situation as of 29th of March, 2017 is still desperate and still hopeless and we have no other options for getting money but for my writing - which is extremely inconsistent income. Help us if you can. Consider sharing on other social media if you can. It would mean so much if I could raise $60 by TONIGHT so my partner and I can go into London tomorrow for a medical appointment I have at Chelsea and Westminster Hospital.
Here is my Patreon. A pledge of even $1, $2, or $3 means so, so much to me and my family’s long-term survival.
We received $40 in the night. Thank you! Only $20 more needed to help cover the costs of our train to London for my medical appointment.
We raised all $60. Thank you to everyone who contributed or reblogged. Please keep circulating. We (a Black disabled gnc girl, a Jewish disabled trans woman, a 2 year old genderless cinnamon role too pure for this world) recently fled abuse and are trying to rebuild our lives from scratch.
trans day of visibility and i cant bring myself to take a new picture of myself, i feel like garbage. I’m Bjorn, a severely mentally ill trans man 10 months on testosterone with no more testosterone, i cant afford summer clothes and my only tshirts and cooler clothes have holes in them too from years of wear, i only have one pair of pants that doesn’t have the thighs rubbed out of existence, and my mental health caseworker is refusing to help take me to the disability office (i’ve been waiting 2 years now for disability) and to planned parenthood to try to get more hormones and get the required papers to finish my name/gender change. i don’t have family support, suffer with bpd, chronic major depression, anxiety, asperger’s and ptsd (yes, diagnosed). I’m agoraphobic and never leave the house alone, and honestly struggle to take care of myself in many aspects that I don’t like talking about. If anyone would be willing to donate towards getting some new pants or a lyft to go to/from social security/PP i’d really appreciate it.
y’all know i try to keep reblogs unrelated to art biz to a minimum but its tdov and this is my internet son. if you have a buck, maybe send it his way. if you have more maybe check out his art because its super cool and he’s one of the few artists i’ve ever commissioned.
I am a mentally ill, physically disabled, trans youth living in an unsupportive and abusive household. any attempts at saving money have been thwarted either by my own bills and medication, or by demands by my mother. She has made it clear that she no longer wants to deal with me, and nonlonger...
i found the perfect studio apartment in the perfect location, and now im scrambling to get things together to qualify for it and hopefully get it
its perfect for me, and right across the street from my older sister, and i know im desperate but im begging for help.
its 500sq ft, $225 1st month move in special with 1 year lease. Available with utilities included at $445 per month and $300 for the move in special amount. not bad prices considering other places ive looked at, but im in desperate need of help as i grow dangerously closer to being homeless.
i work nearly day and night at this point to keep myself afloat and put aside what i can to save up but im out of time. so please, even if its just a signal boost, im begging for help
Hello, my name is Jade. I am an 18 year old trans girl. Some of you may have already seen me around tumblr or maybe even follow me.
I came out to my parents saying “I like boys” around the 8th grade. My father instantly bombarded me with negativity, telling me that I am a f***ing f****t and that I am going to rot on hell. He would choke me and hit me. At one point he threw me onto my couch, breaking it in half. I was isolated. I had no internet access for three years.
That summer, my father would take me on car rides in which he “beat the devil out of me.” He would drive me around town, hitting me in the stomach mostly and then we would return home like nothing happened.
He has an extreme case of bipolar disorder where he has blackout manic episodes where I am the target of his anger.
Freshman year, an administrator at my school called my parents to tell them I was wearing makeup and dresses.
The abuse continued, and during sophemore my mom took me to see a therapist and I confided in him that I did not want to live any longer. The intense discomfort of my gender dysphoria was getting worse as I went through puberty and the intense fear of my father had me constantly anxious. I went to a hospital for my depression and suicidal thoughts in atlanta where they helped me with my gender identity and even got my mom to say my actual name! But that was the only time she ever did. My parents took me out of that hospital and took me to another one in the middle of nowhere georgia where they kept trying to drill it into my head that I am a boy and not a girl. I eventually had to lie to get out.
I missed so much school from being away at the hospital or being depressed/dysphoric that i’ve been making up classes to this day and I might not even graduate on time.
Junior year, my dad beat me to the point where i finally had physicall proof. Bruises from where he’d hit me, scabs on my scalp from where he pulled my hair out. Child services designated my friend’s house as a safe space and I was allowed to stay until my dad got help with his anger issues. After a couple months, I moved back in with my parents and it was terrible. At this point I was not suicidal anymore but he was threatening to put me in a hospital again “just because he could.”
I have been living in constant fear and depression. I got a minimum wage job over the summer because I knew I could start HRT when I turned 18 but I hat no Idea how expensive it was. I spent 240 dollars for a therapist to diagnose me with Gender Identity Disorder. I spent 510 dollars on blood tests so I could start my hormones and my doctor wants me back in a few weeks to do more tests. I know i will be back for at least three more tests in this year alone at the six week mark, the three month mark and the nine month mark.
My savings account is being DRAINED. I used to work 35 hours a week but now I’m going to an alternative school and taking three online classes alongside my other classes. I was taking more but I tested out of them. I cant afford to work every day anymore. I need to finish school and get my diploma so I can start going to beauty school and making enough money to move out. I cant live in fear anymore. Im tired. Its draining.
I’ve been putting this off for a while now because I don’t like asking for help but it’s gotten to the point where I need it.
If every one of my followers donated a dollar, I would have enough money for two years of blood tests.
If every one of my followers donated ten dollars, I would have enough money for Gender Reassignment surgery.
UPDATE: It hasn’t even been 12 hours and you have all managed to raise 510 dollars. I can not begin to express how grateful I am. That will cover the cost of my next blood work appointment. Thank you all so much and please keep signal boosting. I still have more blood work scheduled. My endocrinologist is keeping a close eye on my health because she doesn’t know if my body can handle spironolacrone(testosterone blocker). So i am on a high dosage of estrogen and a low dosage of spiro. But if the blood tests go well, she might be able to give me a full dose of spiro which means my body will take the estrogen better and transition will go a lot more smoothly!
If any of you have been following what’s been going on, you would know Lulu had been having seizures. Well, things just continue to get worse. My other cat, Nidalee, started flipping out for no reason. Then Lulu did. Lulu showed this behavior a while before her seizures started, so I fear Nidalee may always have a brain tumor or something causing it as well.
My options are to get them x-rays or have them both put down. I can’t afford x-rays for both cats. I couldn’t even afford it for one, and I haven’t been able to raise enough money to do so. I’m still struggling to pay off previous vet bills.
Please, I’m begging you, signal boost this and help me try to save my kitties. Likes do nothing. All my notes from before are mostly likes. I understand not everyone can donate, but everyone can hit the reblog button. Please help me spread the word at the very least.
I don’t want to lose my cats. They’ve put me through hell but I love them so, so much.
Hi! I’m a 21 Muslim qpoc who’s in an abusive family with no way of getting out due to my parents controlling my bank account, and what I do, I recently got into saic(which is an extremely hard school to get into for your masters) for my masters but abused into rejecting the offer because my parents want me to stay at home, and even though I’m not out to my family, I’ve been beat and have heard multiple times that my parents want to throw lgbtqa members off of buildings and burn them alive and have physically harmed me just by knowing I support lgbtqa and have said they are willing to kill me if I verbally talked about it again. Due to the forced rejection from saic, I realized I don’t feel like I can live like this anymore, but having no where to go because of my parents forcing me to cut off ties from all my friends and isolating me, because of that I’m planning on leaving without anything I have because it’s unrealistic I could take anything with me,
Please, I just want to get out and start my life,
All the fees will go to
-Homing and building my life again
-legal fees, restraining order, getting my name legally changed, also getting my legal documents, which are all controlled by my parents
-Food/clothing
-Medical costs, since I’ll loose my insurance, I was supposed to have a jaw surgery in a few months but I don’t think I can last that long
-Etc
Every dollar helps.
Hey guys I haven’t gotten a single donation in days and I really need to leave please, like idk what I should do, I’m begging, at least boost this
