Icon by @ThatSpookyAgent. Call me Tir or Julian. 37. He/They. Queer. Twitter: @tirlaeyn. ao3: tirlaeyn. 18+ Only. Star Trek. The X-Files. Sandman. IwtV. OMFD. Definitionless in this Strict Atmosphere.

baital:

rachellephant:

the most important thing to me ever is bi kids knowing that it’s ok to be 10% attracted to women and 90% attracted to men or 10% attracted to men and 90% attracted to women and still feeling ok to identify as bi, and still feeling like their identity is valid, and still feeling like they can lead fulfilling lives with both (or other) genders. like that’s just so fricking important.

I’m a bi adult and you know what? I needed this. Thank you.

myvegansensesaretingling:

when you insist that bisexuality is transphobic with that “bisexuals are only attracted to men and women” crap, you yourself are being transphobic by suggesting that trans women/men are in a category separate from women/men

trans women are real women, trans men are real men, and bisexuals can be attracted to all sorts of genders

stop reciting dusty dictionary definitions of bisexuality (which were, by no accounts, written by people who understood MOGII folk) to actual bisexuals and go evaluate your life choices

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Basically, I self-identified with bisexuality long before I ever heard of pansexuality. I’m still not quite sure what the difference is, but I don’t see a reason to change my label. Some people feel more comfortable identifying as bi and some as pan, and no one should have to justify their sexuality to anyone.

mothballmilkshake:

When I’m dating a man I’m no longer bisexual

Just like when I’m at home, I’m no longer employed

Or when I’m not studying I’m no longer a student.

Mmm object impermanency 

I’m at work and a guy comes in with beautiful eyes and rough sexy hands, and then a woman came in with beautiful long brown hair and tight jeans and cowboy boots, and what I’m saying is, even though I’m a cis woman married to a cis man, I’m still bisexual. Sexuality doesn’t end with partner choice.

littlefairytaleprince:

I really hate the notion of a supposedly straight person being “a little gay”. There isn’t such a thing as “a little gay”.

BISEXUAL.

Bisexuality exists, maybe with a preference for one gender, but that doesn’t make them gay or straight.

Please stop erasing bisexuality.

emiello:

Bisexuality isn’t the name for a weird phenomenon that occurs somewhere between gay and hetero. It’s not a synonym for confused or attention-seeking, and it’s not code for “actually straight”. It isn’t something you can measure with points or percentages or relationship history.

it’s a completely real sexuality that stands alone and isn’t up for debate