sheabutterbitch:

Neglecting your needs and desires will not make you easier to love

biggest-gaudiest-patronuses:

one trope i absolutely must see more of is enemies-to-accidental-adoptive-co-parents

littlebabycrybtch:

hey full offense but the ‘use the right pronouns even if the person is horrible!’ statements arent made to coddle horrible ppl, its saying ‘dont view correct pronouns as a fucking privilege that can be taken away once people decide you’ve fucked up enough’, misgendering someone on purpose is transphobic no matter what bc it equates transphobia as a ‘punishment’ for bad people, pronouns are a part of baseline human respect, its that simple

shranstan:

My personal favourite post-canon Cardassia garak/parmak/bashir situation:

Julian tells Garak he’s gonna move to Cardassia to be a doctor and that he doesn’t really have anywhere to stay but that’s okay, he’ll figure something out. Garak, with his stupid little crush on Julian, offers for Julian to move in with him.

At the hospital Julian realises he is co-workers with none other than one Dr Parmak. Garak finds out about this one day when he’s picking up Julian from work or something like that. 

Garak then proceeds to pine x2 and suffer in silence because holy fuck, his old teenage fling he’s still in love with and the guy he’s spent the last 7 years admiring from a distance are becoming really good friends and what if! They become something more than that! He’d loose both of them to each other! What the hell!

Meanwhile, both Julian and Parmak think that Garak is in love with the other, but they are still great pals and they come to realise they care about their ‘rival’, too.

And then Garak snaps and has a gay meltdown in front of both of them, everything is revealed and they live happily ever after and get married and adopt a whole orphanage worth of kids.