pansyfem:

pansyfem:

but i genuninly dont know how to get some of you people to get this but your opinion of what being trans is or what being a lesbian is or what being bisexual is or whatever does not and will not ever effect whether someone is that or not

theres people who identify as trans and will never socially or medically transition. there are people who identify as lesbians who’s partners later turn out to be men. theres trans women who identify as gay men. theres always going to be people who you dont like who identify as the same as you. but you dont get to decide theyre not this or that. because you’re not them.