I wish abled people would swallow the harsh truth that sometimes bad things happen to good people instead of directly or indirectly blaming mentally ill and disabled people for their struggles in order to hang on to the belief that something like that couldn’t happen to innocent, good people who didn’t do anything wrong. I know it’s hard to confront that really bad things could happen to anyone - but it’s important to acknowledge or you’ll find yourself blaming others for things outside their control in order to maintain your own feeling of false security.