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i mean, maybe this is my inner “survivor of child abuse” talking, but I am not going to tell abusive parents that they’re bad at bringing up their children without a bullet proof plan with regards to how I could protect my student from the emotional and physical backlash of that meeting.
Important thing to remember about intervening in abuse in general. Any actions taken by others to hold the abuser accountable WILL be taken out on the victim and not the person doing the confronting. Do not confront an abuser about their actions unless you know for absolute certain that you can protect their victim from the fallout.
AN ABBREVIATED GUIDE TO ‘holy shit my friend is in an abusive relationship what do I do’
I still wonder abt that dumbass who told me to dump trash on my abusive mom like ,, these ppl they dont care about you so they tell you to do all these things without considering the conquences just so they feel like theyre doing something for the victim, its disgusting and when youre like no im not gunna do that they turn around and say that the victim support abuse???