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queenfattyoftherollpalace:

It’s gross as fuck to tell people that no one will love them until they love themselves. Loving yourself is hard. Listen: you are loved, you are worthy of love and respect, and you can be loved even on the days when you see nothing in yourself to love.

cummied:

flailing-blogger:

If you want to be friends with me you don’t have to be “Hi, um, can, ya know, we be friends?”

It is 1000000000000000000000% percent ok if you just go into my inbox can go. “Man, I am so fucking pissed off at fucking Michael.” And I’ll most likely respond with, “Oh shit! What did Michael do now?“ 

this is such a good post because asking ppl if you can be friends can make them feel so uncomfortable but if you approach them like this its SO EASY to start a conversation and let a friendship develop naturally

floozys:

i don’t care about straight girls who are afraid to cut their hair short in case they get called lesbians, i care about the fact that lesbians are being used as fucking insults 

nudityandnerdery:

Very uncomfortable with people who want to take this tragedy and strip it of its context. This was not an attack on America. This is not a situation where flag-waving patriotism is the answer.

This was an American-born citizen who targeted a gay club on Latin Night. The overwhelming majority of the people there were Latinx or African-American.

These are groups who are told to “go back to your own country,” called “unamerican,” targeted by legislation, or cast as “others” by the same flag-waving patriotism some people are wanting to rally to in this situation. Do not trample over the people who have been killed or hurt in an attempt to claim victimhood for a nation that would otherwise shun them.