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laddermatch:

arceoxys:

laddermatch:

arceoxys:

mireaul:

arceoxys:

mireaul:

arceoxys:

beinggayisreallyexpensive:

goldenpoc:

I can’t believe people actually use the term pop for soda like what is this footloose?

Fuck this slander against Canadian English

they call it pop cuz it be poppin off

Calling it “pop” is lawful good, and calling all soft drinks “coke” regardless of what they are is chaotic evil

calling anything soda is dumb as hell

Baking soda, or as I – an intellectual – like to call it, mysterious white leavening agent,

does anyone call baking soda “soda” though?

no

i do, because it’s right there in the name

so if u bakin something and u want someone to give u the baking soda u will say “can you pass me the soda”

yes because nobody in a bakery kitchen is dumb enough to hand me a fucking dr pepper

spiderinthecupboard:
“sing-me-the-song-of-my-otp:
“ bidyke:
“ rcmclachlan:
“ doodlyood:
“ theonewholovesbooks:
“ thatfilthyanimal:
“ Say that at 18 I slap down enough money so I could have my whole body covered head-to-toe in tattoos, piercings all...

spiderinthecupboard:

sing-me-the-song-of-my-otp:

bidyke:

rcmclachlan:

doodlyood:

theonewholovesbooks:

thatfilthyanimal:

Say that at 18 I slap down enough money so I could have my whole body covered head-to-toe in tattoos, piercings all over myself, a mountain of cigarettes, plastic surgery, and plan to have like 20 babies… but if I try at all to safely make it impossible for me to breed for the sake of my health suddenly its like WOAH THERE SLOW DOWN MISSY YOU’RE NOT READY FOR THIS KIND OF COMMITMENT YET

I have stage III Endometriosis, which means I have to get my uterus removed because I literally have terrible cramps ALL THE TIME and not just when I’m on my period. Now, I’ve always said I don’t want any children for personal reasons and I don’t need my uterus, really. I am not worried about that surgery and I don’t feel any kind of nostalgia over an organ I won’t ever use. 

The thing is, my doctor is a ‘man’. This ‘man’ told me I had to get pregnant right now before it’s too late. I told him I didn’t want to get pregnant and explained the multiple reasons but what, do you ask, did my doctor have to say about this? ‘Well, better have a kid now because just imagine how depressing it must be being a thirty-something woman without children and a husband?’

I was diagnosed a year ago. I should have gone through surgery six months ago and I still can’t find a doctor that will perform the surgery without trying to force me to have children first. Basically, if you’re a woman you don’t have a say in what can and cannot be done to your body without a shitload of people getting in the way AND I’M FUCKING SICK OF IT.

A dear friend of mine wanted to have her tubes tied.  She was about to give birth to twins and the doctors wouldn’t consent because she wasn’t 21 yet.  She had already had children and they still refused to let her have the procedure.

My friend got a vasectomy a week after asking his doctor for one, no problem. He was 25.

Me? I’ve asked 4 different doctors for some kind of permanent sterilisation—tubal ligation or Essure or whatever—and I get a pat on the head and a “You’d regret it if you did.”

Oh, DIDN’T REALIZE YOU HAD A DIRECT LINE TO MY BRAIN.

This is horrifying.

My mom had me at 19 and at 28 she still had trouble finding a doctor to remove her uterus. She had  Endometriosis so bad where it grew into other organs. Every time she got her period she had to go to the hospital for bleeding out. And the doctors were like “what if you want another child? what if you find mr.Right and he wants kids” and she told them over and over. That she had too many complications with me and that Mr.Right would love her uterus or not. she was passed thirty when she had the surgery finally. But due to all the years it got worse until there was a complication were she almost died. 

Doctors shouldn’t be able to refuse surgery like that.God give them a 2 week waiting period or something. Its not their body 

People with uterus are seen as nothing more than the uterus and it’s fucking absurd