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dailyplantfacts:

Alcea rosea is in the hibiscus family Malvaceae. Commonly known as hollyhock, it is native to southwest Asia, but has become naturalized throughout temperate parts of the world. Hollyhock is a perennial shrub that can grow over 8 feet tall, and produces large showy flowers in the axils of the leaves. For centuries, hollyhock has been planted ornamentally, with hundreds of varieties available for cultivation that range in size and flower color. Aside from its ornamental use, hollyhock has a history of use medicinally as a moisturizer, and to cure inflammation.

bonnieventure:

there is nothing stopping anyone from playing monopoly like a roleplay tabletop game besides, perhaps, individual fear or insecurity of the unknown. but you can completely do that. there is nothing in the rulebook saying that the dog game piece is not a modern domesticated orc. mostly because there is no rulebook for this but i’m making it up now and i guess that’s how it is around here. you have your map. you have your campaign concept. and is not the banker performing a role. is that not.. a dungeonmaster performance i ask u.. why are we afraid to open our hearts to the concept of dnd monopoly 

motherfrigginpsas:
“ LISTEN UP AGAIN KIDS
STOP REBLOGGING THIS FUCKING GARBAGE POST. IT IS 100% FUCKING BULLSHIT AND CAN AND MOST DEFINITELY WILL LITERALLY KILL.
DO YOU NOT SEE WARNING LABELS THAT SAY “DO NOT INDUCE VOMITING”? THEY AREN’T FUCKING...

motherfrigginpsas:

LISTEN UP AGAIN KIDS

STOP REBLOGGING THIS FUCKING GARBAGE POST. IT IS 100% FUCKING BULLSHIT AND CAN AND MOST DEFINITELY WILL LITERALLY KILL.

DO YOU NOT SEE WARNING LABELS THAT SAY “DO NOT INDUCE VOMITING”? THEY AREN’T FUCKING AROUND. YOU CAN FUCKING BURN THEIR ESOPHAGUS BY CAUSING VOMITING, CAUSE CHOKING, DROWNING, OR MAKE IT WORSE!

AGAIN DO NOT FORCE ANYTHING DOWN ANYONE’S THROAT. THEY. CAN. DROWN.

IF SOMEONE IS LOSING CONCIOUSNESS ALL THE CHIT CHAT IN THE WORLD WILL NOT PREVENT IT AT THAT POINT THEY ARE IN SERIOUS DANGER.

“Buuut i don’t wanna take them to the hospital!!!”

WELL SUNSHINE GLAD YOU’D RATHER HAVE A DEAD FRIEND THAN A LIVING ONE BUT YOU’RE IN LUCK

CALL FUCKING POISON CONTROL. THEY ARE NOT THE COPS. THEY WILL HELP YOU.

AND IF THEY SAY GO TO THE FUCKING HOSPITAL YOU GO TO THE FUCKING HOSPITAL. NO EXCUSES. 0. NONE.

I have seen this shit cross my dash SO MANY TIMES so PLEASE fucking reblog this and prevent some well meaning idiot from accidentally killing someone they love!

misterchat:

secretlesbians:

Depictions of Lesbianism by Henri Toulouse Lautrec

During his life, Lautrec spent a lot of time in Montmarte, the bohemian centre of 19th century Paris and home to artists, philosophers, writers, performers, and prostitutes. He spent a lot of time with the sex workers there, and discovered that many of them had intimate relationships with one another.

Lautrec’s depiction of lesbianism is particularly notable because it doesn’t fetishise sexual intimacy between women or present it as spectacle for the male gaze. Lautrec was trying to capture small, tender moments in the lives of the women he met, and he did so with humanity and sensitivity. In a world of constructed sexuality and fantasy, he finds the real relationships, and reveals to us the hidden lives of queer women in the 19th century.

Fin-de-siècle Paris was the capital of lesbianism. However, until the mid century, and despite the acknowledgment of male homosexuality, female homosexuality had been considered absurd. This scepticism was grounded in the fact that many nineteenth-century psychologists and medical professionals did not believe in female sexual impulse. Thus, when instances of lesbianism were reported in Alexandre Parent-Duchâtelet’s 1836 study of prostitution in Paris, lesbianism came to be understood as an activity associated with the Montmartre counterculture and, in particular, with prostitution. Indeed, deluxe houses of tolerance often functioned as specialty brothels that catered for a clientele with particular fetishes, such as tableaux vivants where ‘inmates, entirely naked, abandon themselves to homosexual practices on a large black velvet carpet or in rooms hung with black satin to bring out the whiteness of their bodies’. This was lesbianism as commercial spectacle, performed within a closed environment for male consumption.

Lesbianism in the public realm was a sexual preference that, while common, was negatively judged by French conservative society and for this reason was conducted with subtlety and partially obscured. In fact, many of the biggest stars of the Parisian circuses, dance halls and café-concerts were lesbian or bisexual, including Jane Avril and May Milton (whom, it is generally agreed, had a short-lived love affair), Sarah Bernhardt, Cha-u-ka-o and La Goulue. Whilst these Montmartre celebrities were depicted on multiple occasions by Lautrec, the artist chose to represent them as skilled professionals, never exploiting their sexual preference as the main focus of his compositions. So subtle was Lautrec in his treatment of these themes that art historians such as David Sweetman have gone so far as to argue that ‘It comes as something of a shock to realise that most of the women … were in fact lesbians and that quite a few were lovers. So many, in fact, that it is possible to argue that lesbianism is the hidden subtext of much of the art of Henri’s mature years.’

- from nga.gov.au

Images shown:

1. At the Moulin Rouge: The Women Dancing

2. In Bed

3. The Kiss

4. Two Friends

5. Les Deux Amies

Adding my favourite one!

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a late fall/winter psa

pageleaf:

if you live in a place with noticeable seasons, the days where you are might be getting colder and shorter right about this time. that means less sunlight, which has been shown to have effects on people’s moods (whether because of season affective disorder or simply because your association to the weather is gloomier). if you’re a student, you might be nearing the middle of your semester/trimester and starting to get stressed out.

this time of year (november - march) tends to be hard for me, so i thought i’d put together a list of techniques i use or try to use to manage/improve my mood. there’s a couple techniques on here i got from other people as well! not all of these will work for all people, but i thought they might make a good jumping off point

behaviors:

  • regular sleep schedule (as much as possible)
  • regular meals (that, if possible, make you want to eat, rather than eating just for sustenance)
  • embracing the “nice” parts of the late fall/winter season. a couple examples i’ve seen, but which might be different for you:
    • Winter Aesthetic™ (sweaters and scarves, heck yeah)
    • twinkle lights!
    • hot drinks (tea with sugar and cider work best for me)
    • incense/candles
    • warm/cuddly clothing
    • holiday spirit (for whatever winter/fall holiday applies!)
    • soup/hearty foods

mood boosters:

  • snatching a little bit of sunlight, even if it’s just ten minutes
  • if feasible, a sun lamp/SAD lamp
  • putting a little more effort into presentation than maybe you want to (makeup or clothes or hair or even posture; sometimes “fake it till you make it” is a good strategy)
  • BLANKETS! WARM THINGS!
  • comforting media. this varies depending on the person, but for me usually looks like:
    • cartoons, anime, live action tv that ISN’T grimdark
    • YA novels, especially YA fantasy
    • music that’s either relaxing or upbeat, but not harsh to the ear
    • here’s a few of my faves

if anyone else has any suggestions that would be amazing!