so i started a new book
*drags hands down face*
reblogging this again because this is from Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents and I’m reading it right now and it’s incredibly awkward to read about my entire life’s problems neatly described by a complete stranger
Fuck this is literally meeeeeeee
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents is right at the top of my psych books list along with Why Does He Do That and Trauma and Recovery.
10/10, highly recommend.
Well this feels hella real
I always reblog this whenever I see it on my dash. If this sounds familiar to you, I highly recommend reading the book. I read the whole thing in less than two days, and it opened my eyes to a lot of things, especially about how I relate to other people.
Also, let me tell you: When someone genuinely cares about you, they want you to ask for help if you need it, because they want you to succeed. Anything short of that is not love.
And if someone else doesn’t know how to process or express their own emotions, it isn’t your responsibility to “fix” them, or to pour support into a relationship that gives you nothing back. You have a right to look after your own emotional well-being.
















