So this was on the local news tonight. A mother in a city about 20 minutes south of me has a 10y/o autistic son, and she said that because he’s autistic, she’s afraid he’s going to get hit by a car on the street because he “can’t think” and might just run out into the street without looking. So she called some city officials and requested that they put up this sign in front of her home to warn drivers that there’s an autistic child in the area. Within 3 days, they put this sign up just for her.
As an autistic person myself, this is just rubbing me an enormously wrong way. I don’t like this. At all. In fact, I kinda hate it. It just strikes me as one of those sympathy-addicted Autism Mom™ things that doesn’t take into account the humanity of their autistic kid. Like she needs to announce to the world that she has no idea how to communicate with her own child, and rather than learning what kind of communication methods he needs as an autistic person, she just assumes that he’s just this unreachable burden she’s forced to bear, and is calling on the community to “help” her deal with this creature she can’t “control.” And that lowers this poor boy to sub-human status. Like she thinks they need their own personal “Deer Crossing” sign, but in her cause “Autistic Crossing.” It just strikes me as so wrong.
What do you think?
and I mean even other than those problems, people treat autistic people horribly. this mom is literally alerting everyone to the fact that her kid is autistic and yup, it’s definitely this kid that lives right here where this sign is! like, did she not even think of how that might affect him if he tries to make friends? (I mean, I get those aren’t the kind of friends you’d want anyway, but still.)
and the fact it was literally on the news. now everyone, no matter how prejudiced, knows about her kid’s autism. I mean, look how far this has already spread! did she really think this was a good idea? did she even ask how he would feel if literally everyone knew he’s autistic? I’ll bet she didn’t. I’ll bet she doesn’t care either.
I’m sorry I’m going off, but this really grinds my gears…




