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positivelybutch:

For all my recently out transgender followers

If you are being asked invasive and uncomfortable questions regarding surgery, hormones, etc. You don’t have to answer and you can shut them down. It is NOT rude, frankly, them asking in the first place is rude.

If you’re anxious about how to respond, try:

“I’m not comfortable talking about that”

“I don’t want to talk about that”

“That is something I only talk about with my doctor/therapist”

And if you want to be firmer:

“That’s really invasive”

“That’s not any of your business”

“That’s an inappropriate question to ask”

“I’m not answering that”

genderkoolaid:

never in a million years could I have guessed that by using the phrase “queer men” in a post, in an attempt to quickly include gay men, bi&pan men, trans men, ace&aro men, polyam men, gnc men, and others as a group, would I have had so many people accusing me of erasing gay & bi men. I did not realize people needed to be told that gay men are queer! my b guys, next time I’ll write out every single possible queer identity a cis guy could have!