charlidrawz said: @charlidrawz After breaking up, her friends would always ask personal questions jokingly like, “What, was she a bad kisser? Lol” and “oh my god, did she, like, refuse to do stuff with you or something?” Other people’s lives shouldn’t be anybody else’s business, and there’s very low chances they’ll want to share their experiences with you if you’re just going to be a disrespectful inconsiderate jerk.

charlidrawz said: @charlidrawz Now she herself has also come out as trans, and said that she’s gone to different places to get help for mental health issues she never told me about. I’m a very “forgive and forget” encouraging type of person, but it’s still difficult to heal the damage done to relationships and expect everything to just be fine, especially when they’re treating it like you’re the one who caused them trauma.

charlidrawz said: When I was a kid before coming out as trans I had an ex I don’t like talking about who would try to get me to be with him alone downstairs in his grandparents’ basement, and I never really processed it as something that bad at the time, but I look back at it and get panic attacks every time, and every time I think he’s found my accounts online. I thought, “This is normal. I’m used to this kind of stuff. Must be fine.”

charlidrawz said: Can we talk a out the comments here? I’m trying so hard not to cry rn.

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